Pain is your own reality

“People are afraid of themselves, of their own reality; their feelings most of all. People talk about how great love is, but that’s bullshit. Love hurts. Feelings are disturbing. People are taught that pain is evil and dangerous. How can they deal with love if they’re afraid to feel? Pain is meant to wake us up. People try to hide their pain. But they’re wrong. Pain is something to carry, like a radio. You feel your strength in the experience of pain. It’s all in how you carry it. That’s what matters. Pain is a feeling. Your feelings are a part of you. Your own reality. If you feel ashamed of them, and hide them, you’re letting society destroy your reality. You should stand up for your right to feel your pain.”

Jim Morrison

No Good in Goodbye

I suppose there comes a time in all of our lives when you just have to move on and let it go . While people come and go in our lives like the wind – you want to stay with in some of those windy places because you really enjoy the calm and peace that you experience there. But every once in a while, things change and possibly even a bad weather spell leads us to not feel the same way about the place anymore.

At some point, you have to accept the fact that you have done too much for too little to come out of it. Not saying that you have to give up and not try to make things right, but what you need to (or rather have to) is to draw a line – which separates your heart and your mind, your desires and your beliefs, your hopes (realistic) and your dreams, desperation and determination; a line at which you say, this is me!

If it is still meant to be, then it shall be. If not, you learnt a lesson – one of many – which will come your way, for which all you can do is accept and move on.

If you leave someone atleast tell them why because what's more painful than being abandoned is knowing you're not worth an explanation. Image Source